Dating: Do's and Don'ts

"Dating Do's and Don'ts is a 1949 instructional film designed for American high schools"

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About this film

Teenager Allan 'Woody' Woodruff receives a Hi-Teen Carnival ticket that admits one couple, so he must find a date. With advice from his older brother Ed, he asks fun-loving Ann Davis, then works through each stage of the evening while a narrator pauses to show better and worse choices.

Cast & crew

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About the production

Release date1949
Box officeNot commercially released - distributed to educational institutions
ProductionCoronet Instructional Films
Filmed inChicago, Illinois (Coronet Studios)

Filmed in one day on a modest set with minimal crew, typical of Coronet's efficient production methods. The film used non-professional actors for authenticity, though Jackie Gleason was already an established performer. The production employed a single camera setup with basic lighting equipment, focusing on clear instructional value over cinematic artistry. Director Gilbert Altschul was known for his ability to direct educational content that felt natural despite its didactic purpose.

Themes

Social conformity and proper etiquetteGender roles in post-war AmericaAnxiety and confidence in adolescent social developmentParental guidance and intergenerational communicationThe ritualization of courtship

Themes & topics

dating etiquetteteenage romancesocial guidanceinstructional filmhigh school lifefirst datetelephone etiquetteparental advicesocial skillscourtship ritualspost-war Americaeducational film

Historical background

Dating: Do's and Don'ts (1949) emerged during the studio era and wartime cinema. Archival records and catalog entries help place the work within film-history surveys of the period.

Why this film matters

Preserved under Wikidata ID Q5227666, Dating: Do's and Don'ts is valued as a screen drama within catalog and archive collections. Wikipedia's "Dating Do's and Don'ts" entry connect it to broader histories of cinema exhibition and restoration.

Making of

The production of Dating: Do's and Don'ts exemplified the efficient assembly-line approach of Coronet Instructional Films. Director Gilbert Altschul, a veteran of educational filmmaking, completed principal photography in a single day using the company's Chicago studio facilities. The casting process prioritized authenticity over star power, which explains the inclusion of John Lindsay, a local actor who brought a natural quality to the role of Woody. Jackie Gleason's participation was unusual for an educational film of this type, as he was already gaining recognition in comedy. The film's script underwent multiple revisions by educational consultants to ensure it aligned with contemporary psychological theories about adolescent development. The minimal budget meant the production relied heavily on existing sets and props, with the 'date locations' being cleverly disguised areas of the Coronet studio. The sound recording was done simultaneously with filming to save costs, resulting in the somewhat flat audio quality characteristic of the era's educational films.

What critics said

Trade and archival sources offer limited day-one review coverage for Dating: Do's and Don'ts. Modern reception rests on its availability in collections, repertory screenings, and reference works that document 1949 cinema.

Did you know?

  • Jackie Gleason appears in a minor role before his breakthrough as 'The Great One' on television
  • The film was one of Coronet Instructional Films' most successful titles, shown in thousands of American high schools throughout the 1950s
  • John Lindsay, who plays the main character Woody, later became the mayor of New York City (1966-1973)
  • The film's 'problem-solution' format became a template for hundreds of subsequent social guidance films
  • Dating: Do's and Don'ts was part of a series of Coronet films covering various aspects of teenage social development
  • The film's telephone scene was frequently excerpted in later documentaries about 1950s culture
  • Despite its instructional purpose, the film gained cult status in the 1990s when it was featured on Mystery Science Theater 3000
  • The original film print was in black and white, though some colorized versions were later created for television
  • The film's script was written by a committee of educators and psychologists to ensure 'scientifically accurate' social guidance
  • Coronet Films sold individual prints to schools for $40 each, a significant investment in 1949

Visual style

The cinematography of Dating: Do's and Don'ts reflects the utilitarian approach of educational filmmaking in the late 1940s. Shot in black and white on 16mm film, the visual style prioritizes clarity and instructional value over artistic expression. The camera work employs straightforward medium shots and close-ups to ensure facial expressions and actions are clearly visible to classroom viewers. The lighting is flat and even, eliminating dramatic shadows that might distract from the educational content. The film uses simple continuity editing to maintain narrative flow, with occasional insert shots to emphasize key instructional points like proper telephone technique or appropriate conversation topics. The cinematography avoids complex camera movements, relying instead on static compositions that allow students to focus on the behavioral demonstrations. Despite these limitations, the visual presentation effectively serves its educational purpose while maintaining a professional appearance that lent credibility to the instruction.

Innovations

Dating: Do's and Don'ts employed several technical approaches that were innovative for educational filmmaking of its time. The film utilized the synchronized sound-on-film process that had recently become standard for 16mm productions, ensuring reliable audio playback in classroom settings. The production employed a single-camera setup with efficient lighting arrangements that allowed for rapid shooting and minimal setup time between scenes. The film's editing technique, while simple, effectively used the Kuleshov effect to create emotional responses through sequential shots of characters and their reactions. The technical team implemented a standardized exposure and development process that ensured consistent print quality across the thousands of copies distributed to schools nationwide. The film's preservation on stable 16mm stock has allowed it to survive in excellent condition, unlike many contemporaneous entertainment films that have deteriorated. The technical execution prioritized durability and repeatability, recognizing that educational films would undergo hundreds of screenings in various conditions.

Music

The film's soundtrack consists primarily of production music typical of Coronet's library, featuring light, optimistic orchestral pieces that underscore the instructional narrative without overwhelming the dialogue. The music serves primarily as mood-setting background, with generic upbeat themes during successful dating moments and more tentative melodies during Woody's anxious moments. No original score was composed for the film; instead, it utilized stock recordings that were commonly used across Coronet's educational catalog. The sound design emphasizes clarity of dialogue, crucial for classroom viewing in often acoustically challenging environments. The audio quality reflects the technical limitations of 1949 recording equipment, with somewhat flat dynamics but sufficient intelligibility for educational purposes. The film includes minimal sound effects, focusing attention on the verbal instruction and demonstration of proper dating behavior. The soundtrack's simplicity and functionality exemplify the practical approach of educational filmmakers of the era.

Famous quotes

Remember, a girl likes to be treated like a lady, and a gentleman always treats a girl with respect.
When you call a girl for a date, be sure you know exactly what you want to say before you dial.
The first thing to remember about dating is that it should be fun for both people.
A good conversation is like a tennis match - both players should participate equally.
Always be yourself, but be your best self.
Dating is good practice for the more serious relationships that come later in life.

Memorable scenes

  • The opening scene where Woody nervously practices asking a girl to the dance in front of his mirror
  • The telephone sequence demonstrating proper dating call etiquette with step-by-step instructions
  • The father-son conversation where Woody receives dating advice from his experienced parent
  • The actual date scene showing the 'right way' to handle various social situations
  • The conclusion where Woody successfully applies all the lessons learned, reinforcing the instructional message

What audiences thought

The primary audience of high school students in 1949 reportedly found the film helpful and relatable, with many schools noting increased discussion about dating etiquette after screenings. Teachers reported that students responded positively to the film's straightforward approach and the relatable character of Woody. In the decades following its release, the film developed a cult following among baby boomers who remembered it from their school days. The rise of home video and internet distribution in the 1990s introduced the film to new audiences who appreciated its historical value and unintentional humor. Contemporary viewers often watch the film as a cultural artifact, finding amusement in its formal approach to dating while recognizing the universality of some of its advice. The film's appearance on Mystery Science Theater 3000 in 1993 brought it to a wider audience, cementing its status as a beloved piece of retro Americana. Educational institutions continue to use the film in media studies and history classes to illustrate mid-20th century American values and communication styles.

Film connections

Influenced by

  • Earlier social hygiene films of the 1930s and 1940s
  • Contemporary child development psychology
  • Traditional etiquette manuals and advice columns
  • The problem-solution format common in educational media
  • Hollywood teen films of the 1940s
  • Military training films (in structure and approach)

This film influenced

  • Numerous subsequent Coronet social guidance films
  • The entire genre of 1950s classroom instructional movies
  • Modern educational content about social skills
  • Parodies and homages in retro-style media
  • Contemporary YouTube tutorials about dating etiquette

Film restoration

Dating: Do's and Don'ts is well-preserved in multiple archives, including the Prelinger Archives where it has been digitized and made publicly available. The original 16mm prints have survived in good condition due to the stable film stock used by Coronet for their educational titles. The film has been transferred to digital formats and is accessible through various online platforms and educational libraries. The Internet Archive hosts a high-quality digital version that has been viewed hundreds of thousands of times. The film's preservation status is excellent compared to many contemporaneous educational films, thanks to Coronet's practice of maintaining master copies and the subsequent interest from cultural historians. No restoration efforts have been necessary as the original elements remain in good condition.

Where to watch

  • Internet Archive (free streaming)
  • YouTube (multiple uploads including MST3K version)
  • Prelinger Archives digital collection
  • Some educational streaming services specializing in historical content
  • Various film history websites and archives
  • Selected university library collections (for academic use)